Cherished Moments
Our Evolving Valentine’s Day Traditions

Our First Valentine's Day Date

I remember my very first Valentine’s Day date with Bernard. We had known each other for only two weeks, but he already had a way of making me feel cherished. Bernard told me he was taking me out for dinner to a place I'd never been. Given that I wasn't someone who frequented fancy restaurants, this wasn't a difficult task for him.

We arrived at a cozy little spot on Bank Street in Ottawa. I still remember the warm glow of the dimmed lights, the delicate heart-shaped confetti sprinkled on the tables, and the single red roses placed in slender vases. It felt like walking into a scene from a romantic movie.

When the waiter seated us, I was overwhelmed by the sheer number of utensils, glasses, and plates arranged before me. Panic bubbled up as I whispered to Bernard, “I have no idea what to use when. What am I going to do with all these dishes?” He smiled warmly, took my hand, and said, “Just follow my lead.” And I did. We laughed through the evening, enjoying a meal that was more memorable for the company than the cuisine.

Simple Traditions That Warm the Heart

Over the years, our Valentine’s Day traditions have evolved. We no longer feel the need to impress each other with grand gestures. Some of my favorite Valentine’s memories are the simple ones—staying home, sitting in front of the fireplace with a cheese fondue and a bottle of wine, battling each other in a heated game of Monopoly Go.

A Love Journal That Tells Our Story

Cards have also changed for us. With the rising costs of greeting cards, we decided to start a journal. In it, we write notes to each other on special occasions or whenever one of us needs a little extra TLC. This journal has become a cherished keepsake, filled with love notes that span years, offering a beautiful glimpse into the evolution of our relationship.

Little Acts of Love, Big Memories

One year, I remember Bernard surprising me with breakfast in bed, complete with heart-shaped pancakes. Another year, we took spontaneous car rides just for fun, enjoyed coffee on the banks of the St. Lawrence River, and spent cozy nights watching our favorite movies. Each memory holds a special place in my heart because it reflects our journey together.

Love in the Everyday Moments

Valentine’s Day is a reminder that love isn’t about extravagance; it’s about presence, thoughtfulness, and genuine connection. Everyone has their own way of expressing love. What is yours? How do you show love to the people in your life, and how do you like to receive it?

I’d love to hear your stories. Leave a comment below, and I promise to respond.

Happy Valentine’s Day,