The Stepmom's Book of Boundaries
How and Where to Draw the Line--For a Happier, Healthier Stepfamily
Are you struggling to know where to draw the line in your stepfamily? You're not alone. With stepfamilies now being one of the predominant family types in the U.S. and Canada, stepmoms everywhere need guidance and support to create a thriving family life.
That’s why The Stepmom’s Book of Boundaries is your must-have resource. Whether you’re dealing with shared bathrooms, social media challenges, or setting house rules, this book offers practical strategies and heartfelt advice for creating boundaries that work for everyone.
Take It Further: The Stepmom’s Book of Boundaries 52-Card Deck
Complement the book with a 52-card deck designed to help you:
- Reflect on your personal needs and values.
- Spark meaningful conversations with your partner or family.
- Set limits that reduce stress and encourage cooperation.
Each card is a tool for self-discovery and a step toward creating the family life you deserve.
Brenda Ockun, Founder & Publisher of StepMom Magazine
"I wish I had a copy of The Stepmom’s Book of Boundaries when I first became a stepmom. Fifteen years later, I’m privy to a slew of related products. Still, it’s difficult to find resources for stepmoms which are as targeted, focused, and plainly-written as this one.
Claudette Chenevert engages couples with warmth and humor, sharing stories and anecdotes which bring her advice to life. Her book is designed to help you and your partner navigate stepfamily realities. Thank your lucky stars you found it!"
Lisa Teal-Webb (aka Buckeye Bonusmom), Stepmom Peer Support Specialist
"Boundaries are one of the most important elements in creating a home you’d like to live in. So, whether you’re a stepmom or otherwise in a ‘blended’ family, this book is a must.
Claudette shares the ins-and-outs of setting boundaries, explains how they function, and outlines the many choices you have. This book will not disappoint!"
Leslie Kordella, Biologist
"While The Stepmom’s Book of Boundaries is essential for new stepparents, it reminds all of us that retrospection and retooling are critical to healthy stepfamily relationships.
The way Claudette defines boundaries and expectations sang to me. By covering topics from cell phone use to sexual boundaries, as well, she provides a guide for developing trust. That alone makes it well worth reading."
Mercedes Samudio, LCSW, Parenting Coach & Best-Selling Author of Shame-Proof Parenting
"What Claudette has done in The Stepmom’s Book of Boundaries is amazing: She shares her stepmom experience in such relatable, empathic terms. The act of setting boundaries is difficult for us all. For stepmoms, it can be even more daunting.
Not only does Claudette give stepmoms permission to set healthy boundaries; she lays out simple steps for doing that. I highly recommend this book for stepmoms and those who love them."
Peggy Nolan, Owner of Twisted Crochet & Yoga Instructor
"The Stepmom’s Book of Boundaries is long overdue and will help so many build healthy boundaries for healthy relationships. I love how Claudette describes what boundaries are, what they aren’t, and why we need them.
Stepfamilies everywhere will benefit from her expertise and guidance. I wish this book was available when I first became a stepmom!"
Margie Warrell, Best-Selling Author of Find Your Courage and Brave
"Being a stepmother comes with many challenges—from feeling like an outsider in your own home to dealing with difficult ex-spouses.
In The Stepmom’s Book of Boundaries, Claudette Chenevert provides practical advice that will help you set boundaries and take the brave actions needed to meet your challenges with greater clarity, confidence, compassion, and courage."
What’s Inside the Book?
The book is divided into two parts:
Part 1: Understanding Boundaries
1: What Are Boundaries?
2: What Boundaries Are Not
3: Why We Need Boundaries
4: What Experts Say About Boundaries
5: What Purpose Do Boundaries Serve?
6: What Sorts of Boundaries Are There?
Part 2: Setting Boundaries
7: Setting Personal & Physical Boundaries
8: Shared Bathrooms, Social Media & Sex
9: How to Set Healthy Boundaries
10: Stepfamily Boundaries—Why, When & How
11: Stepfamily Challenges, House Rules & Consequences
12: Setting Rules & Boundaries—Together!
13: Your Stepfamily’s Approach to Kickback
14: What Stepfamily Boundaries Won’t Do for You
15: A Personal Note from Claudette
Plus, an appendix with actionable checklists and conversation starters!
Exclusive Bonuses
Card Deck Perks: Access a private online stepmom community for support and accountability.
Coaching Options: Personalized guidance to help you implement what you’ve learned within the stepmom community
Take Control of Your Stepfamily Journey Today
Order Your Copy
- Get the book in paperback, ebook, or audio.
- Purchase the 52-Card Deck exclusively at www.stepmomcoach.com/shop.