Acts Of Courtesy Can Make
A Difference In People's Lives

One of the things I remember most about my school days were that we addressed teachers by Mrs. Miss or Mr. (Ms. wasn’t used much then). The adults in our surrounding were also addressed in the same manner.

Saying please and thank you was second nature to us and it was always expected, no matter who was saying it. And holding the door open for someone else was common practice.

Today is National Courtesy Day, a day to help us remember that how we treat others is more a reflection of our character and values.

Here’s the thing: what we see as being courteous in our home, our community or our work environment may not be seen as the same for other groups. Courtesy is culture dependent.

Having said this, there are some basic and universal courtesies that are considered common around the world:

• Please
• Thank you
• Proper hygiene
• Respecting elders
• Avoiding offensive gestures

Why Being Courteous Matters

I’m sure you’ve been around some rude, obnoxious person, someone who will push you just to be in front of you in a line, someone who doesn’t say thank you or please whenever you do something for them.

How does that make you feel? Not very appreciated and most probably not respected. People judge us by the behavior we practice both in public and in private. This also means that people will hang around those they feel most comfortable with, along as being respected and valued. Courteous people tend to be surrounded by other courteous beings. It’s worth it.

Since today is Common Courtesy Day, let’s take a moment to become more aware and mindful of our interaction with others and extent some extra courtesy to those that might challenge us a bit more. When someone is being courteous to you, let them know. Acknowledge and reinforce the positive behavior.

• On your phone? Talk in a way that you’re not including everyone around you in the conversation.
• If you borrowed something, return that item in it’s original (or better) condition than you received it.
• You love music? Great! Use your headset when in public places so that others won’t have to listen to it.
• Don’t take up all the space when sitting on the bus, the train or on a plane. Share the space with others.
• Ask someone if they need help when crossing the street, putting on their coat or getting up from their seat.

What other behaviors and acts of courtesy to you do? What would you like to see more of happening in your world?

Let me know below and I'll be sure to respond and be appreciative.

Source: https://www.timeanddate.com/holidays/fun/common-courtesy-day

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